Dating Secret - How to Understand Women

The only reason some guy is scoring big with women and you're not, is that he knows something you don't know..

When you're out in the world notice how women act.

At a restaurant, a coffee shop or department store. Observe and make mental notes. If you're looking for a woman, in a bar, a club, a social event or wherever, observe how women act.

If she's with a man watch what she does:

# Is she touching him?
# Is he touching her?
# When she's talking to a man is he doing most of the talking-or is she?
# Is she leaning toward him or away?

We'll talk about body language in future tips but for now your assignment is to observe and make mental notes.

Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, "What you are speaks so loudly I can't hear what you're saying."

And so it goes when you observe.

You won't have to hear a word they're saying, because you will understand exactly what is going on by watching the way that they act.

This works for observing a couple, or a woman alone, or two or more women together.

Especially look for signs of 'interest.'
# Is she interested in the man she's with?
# Can you see it?
# Where are her eyes focused?

Her interest is a key factor in any relationship, whether you want to take her home that night or marry her, her degree of interest will be the deciding factor.

In fact, there is nothing more important than her interest.

In next week's tip we'll explore more about how to gauge her interest. And in future tips I'll tell you how to maximize her interest.

Until then, become a good observer.

8 Steps to Becoming a Supportive Partner

Being a supportive partner is one of the quickest ways to strengthen your relationship and build mutual respect for each other. Not only do you want to be each other’s lover, you also want to be best friends and confidants. Follow the tips below to truly show your partner that you are on their team every day, through thick and thin, and that you cherish them for who they are and the life you are building together.

Get To Know Them Better
You're always changing, and so is your partner, so take the time to travel their journey with them. Be a sponge like when you first met your love, listening and taking in all they have to say. Let each new thing you learn about your partner add that much more definition and beauty to their ever growing portrait in your heart.

Encourage Their Personal Interests
You were both individuals who chose to join your lives, but it’s healthy for each of you to maintain your own interests, no matter how much fun you have together. Encourage your partner to rekindle friendships, spend time with their family members, stay involved in hobbies, and pursue their own goals, both small and large.

Take Care Of Them When They Are Tired, Hurt, or Sick
Everybody loves to be pampered when they aren’t feeling well. Support their recovery by going above and beyond what's necessary to comfort them. Simply knowing that they can count on you to be there for them in their time of need will elevate your relationship to a new level of love and stability.

Touch Them
One of the most intimate ways to bond with your partner is through physical contact. Every time you touch your partner in a loving or re-assuring way, it not only builds trust between you, it also communicates the love you feel for each other. While making love, kissing and holding hands are the most common ways of expressing your love through physical contact, there are other ways that could be equally rewarding. A fun exercise would be to create different messages based around touch. For example, if you touch them on their forearm in public it could mean, “I love you,’ or massaging the palm of their hand with your thumb could mean, “I want you.”

Create A Common Goal
Working on a project or goal in collaboration with your partner is not only exciting, but can be incredibly fulfilling. There aren’t many better ways to get to know your partner than working towards to a common goal with them. When doing this, make sure you listen to your partner’s point of view and treat them as an equal in the project. Make the effort to see your partner’s skills and strengths and watch your mutual respect for each other reach new heights.

Massage Their Ego
Show your partner that they are truly number one by taking every opportunity you can to boost their ego. Openly brag about their good qualities to your friends and family, while limiting your complaints as much as possible. If you do feel the need to criticize them, have a respectful conversation in private when the time is right.

Show Public Unity
Make every effort possible to avoid correcting them while in the company of others. Sometimes this means biting your tongue and respecting his methods when you don’t agree with them, but the payoff is worth it. Soon enough, you will get the same respect from him and your mutual support will bring you closer together.

Compromise When They Need You To
Compromise is character building because you have to put yourself in someone else’ shoes. Don’t be so competitive that you push your will on your partner just so that you win. If the issue or choice doesn’t matter to you as much as it matters to your partner, bend their way.

Make sure that you don’t take support to an unhealthy extreme and turn yourself into a doormat. If your man doesn’t recognize how supportive you are and return the effort, there are other issues at hand. The idea behind becoming the most supportive partner you can be is that both of you work to support each other, and in doing so, take your relationship to a new level of respect and understanding.

Just an effort to make u smile...

Just an effort to make u smile...

A little girl walked to and from school daily. Though the weather that morning was questionable and clouds were forming, she made her daily trek to the elementary school. As the afternoon progressed, the winds whipped up, along with thunder and lightning. The mother of the little girl felt concerned that her daughter would be frightened as she walked home from school and she herself feared that the electrical storm might harm her child. Following the roar of thunder, lightning, like a flaming word, would cut through the sky. Full of concern, the mother quickly got into her car and drove along the route to her child's school.

As she did so, she saw her little girl walking along, but at each flash of lightning, the child would stop, look up and smile. Another and another were to follow quickly and with each, the little girl would look at the streak of light and smile.

When the mother's car drove up beside the child, she lowered the window and called to her, "What are you doing? Why do you keep stopping?" The child answered, "I am trying to look pretty, God keeps taking my picture".